I'm not saying to be happy you must be married. Nor am I saying that to be happy you need children. I'm saying that if you opt for children -- be you man or woman -- you have to take care of them.

You have to love your children unselfishly. That is hard. But it is the only way.

"Some people give time, some money, some their skills and connections, some literally give their life's blood . . . but everyone has something to give."

"I think togetherness is a very important ingredient to family life. It's a cliche and we use it too much but I think for a husband and wife, the way to stay close is to do things together and share."

"Never lose sight of the fact that the most important yardstick of your success will be how you treat other people -- your family, friends, and coworkers, and even strangers you meet along the way."